Prepare breakfast, lunch and dinner every day... (and put up with it when the cubs protest too much brocoli)
Clean, do laundry, wipe tushies, buy groceries
Chauffer your little ones around
... and possibly all while somehow keeping the lights on and the water running...
Not to mention: Self care, growth, catching up with friends, caring for elderly parents, working on personal projects, being a contributing community member and anything else you might have on your already very-full plate.
I get it. Truly, I do.
... You can figure out your vision "one day"- right?!