Gifts that go beyond “more stuff”
It’s so exciting to receive new gifts – both for the giver and the receiver. But too often, the very same item that induced anticipation and delight, very soon turns to clutter and remorse. Why is it lying around the house, getting tripped over, broken or untouched within weeks if not days? And our children, and ourselves, are onto the next shiny thing to give us our next dopamine hit.
- Perishable: gifts that ‘run out’
Gifts that are used, and then used up make excellent choices for promoting creativity without accumulating clutter. My personal favorites for this style of gift involve the raw materials themselves, rather than elaborate kits that are designed to be built or played with in only one particular (and “correct”) way. I prefer to have materials like clay, beads, and paints at home, and primarily offer them to my children in an unstructured fashion to promote their own exploration and creativity. Of course, if we’re really stuck for ideas we get our inspiration on Pinterest, but we start with open-ended art.Big GiftsBig Set of Pastels
Canvases
Paint kits
Sewing Machine
3D PrinterFamily giftsModeling Clay
Kinetic Sand
Play Dough
Peg Dolls for Painting
Glue Gun
Biggie Perler Beads SetStocking Stuffers
Scissors
Colored Pencils
Crayons
Markers
Markers that crystallize on windows
Chalk Board Markers
Bubbles
Jelly Beads - Heirloom: Gifts that ‘last forever’
The second type of gift I love to give and receive is an heirloom piece. Something that might last forever, or at least be used for years and in many different capacities. A key thing to look for is something that can be enjoyed by different age groups and genders, something that is really well made, and stands the test of time. You also want something with a timeless design and purpose (nothing faddy!). Consider… would I have played with this as a child? Will my grandchildren play with it in the future? If so, it’s a winner.Big giftsPlan toys dolls house
Trampoline
Swings
Wooden rocker boat
Reindeer Recycled Tire Swing
Vintage ride on car
Toy kitchen
Rocking horse
Balance bike
Climbing dome
Family giftsLego (classic box)
Magna-tiles
Chess Set
Tegu Magnetic wooden blocks
Playmobil
Mirror Blocks
Plan Toys Family Dolls
Dressing Up Costumes
Train SetStocking Stuffers
Wooden Whistle
Doll House Items
Finger puppets
Pull along toys - Experience: Gifts that ‘happen to you’
Experiences are incredible gifts to bestow because they really have the capacity for transformation. Plus there is zero clutter (win!). Experiences aren’t always the first thing we think of with gifts, because we like to have a tangible, touchable item in our hands. And for kids receiving the gift of an experience, it might seem too abstract. But I think it’s important to get our children used to the fact that we should feel grateful and lucky for the opportunity to see a show, hear a piece of music, have quality time together, or take a trip. Even reading books together can be categorized as an experience, and I’ve included some of my all-time favorites here.Big giftsTickets to a special show
Tickets for a trip
Special outingFamily Gift
Museum membership
Subscription to music or podcast
Audio books (Stewart Little, Charlotte’s web, Winnie the Pooh, Ramona)
Books (Llama Llama, Piggie and Elephant, Iggy Peck Architect, Madeline)Stocking Stuffers
Tickle match tokens
Tickets for a bus or train ride
Extra books at bedtime tokens
Reading Marathon
Game of tag - Tools: Gifts that ‘enable your learning passion’
Just as adults enjoy receiving exciting tools to advance their hobbies or trades, I believe tools make an excellent gift for children. I personally don’t favor any plastic pretend tools because there’s no reason that children can’t use the real thing – of course in an age appropriate, safer, smaller version. Tools as gifts send the message: you are capable, your work matters, you can create and I believe in investing in you.Big gifts:
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