These 7 Limiting Beliefs Are Sabotaging Your Marriage
Marriage should not be the cause of pain and suffering. Or at least, should not ONLY be a cause of pain and suffering.
Your relationship should also be a source of great energy and joy and should be enhancing and boosting our life. It should make life easier and more enjoyable, having this companion and life partner by our side.
But so often I’m seeing the opposite. Instead of being mostly good with some small challenges, I’m seeing big challenges and lots of stress, with very little joy.
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In this episode, I want to take you through a set of common beliefs about marriage, and why I think they’re wrong.
[04:27] Limiting belief #1: Marriages don’t work out.
[09:12] Limiting belief #2: The ONLY way to improve your relationship is with counseling.
[15:01] Limiting belief #3: You chose the wrong partner.
[22:56] Limiting belief #4: My partner will never change.
[26:46] Limiting belief #5: It would be easier alone.
[32:26] Limiting belief #6: I’m too tired and/or busy to do ALL the work.
[44:02] Limiting belief #7: What if I try and it doesn’t work?
[46:52] Marriage is like Mt. Everest.
[50:10] So how do you do it? What do you do to build the relationship of your dreams?
[54:52] If we’re already in Present Play, can we join Parent In Love too?
[55:17] Do you get the coaching if you’re already in Parent In Love?
[55:58] Is there a payment plan for Parent In Love?
[56:23] Is Parent In Love applicable if my partner doesn’t go through the course?
[58:34] How much does it cost?
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Marriage Should Make Your Life Easier – Not Harder
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1. Got to Grow: A Mini-Course by The Parenting Junkie
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4. My Relationship eBook!
Ultimately how we partner is how we parent. We should do everything we can to be peaceful partners, because it will translate into our parenting and make a big difference in all of our relationships. To help on this journey, here is my ebook filled with relationship tips called the 10 Zen Secrets of Persuasion.
5. Parent in Love
Sometimes, the one thing that’s harder than being a peaceful parent is being a peaceful partner. Want help creating the marriage of your dreams? Check out our course, Parent In Love (and join soon for the group coaching bonus!)